I have a few questions.
Dread Maintenance
what kind of shampoo are you using? is it residue free (it should be)? sauve daily clarifying should help with that if you haven't been using residue free shampoo or haven't been rinsing your hair enough. Have you tried using baking soda and water to clean your hair?
as for the loose hairs....i don't know about that one. my babies are a mess!