dreadlocks driving me insane
Dread Maintenance
I 100% agree with this. I mean, thats what I did. I know how it feels to just hate what you have on your head. I had to comb mine out for that very reason. It gnaws at you constantly.If you truly want to start over, it can be done. You will need..conditioner, olive oil, a rattail comb, a brush, a fork, a friend and lots of patience. Do it slowly. Over a few days. Take your time with each dread. Start at the bottom and massage the conditioner and/or oil into the dread well.Then just start combing. I suggest alternating between combing and massaging to loosen the hairs. You ARE going to lose alot of hair, but remember, some of it is already broken hairs due to the crochet and some is new growth. Your hair WILL be thinner, but it will thicken back up with new growth.With both my posts and suggestions, I can say that I dont regret combing mine out one bit. Im very glad I did. BUT, compared to yours, mine looked like crap. (You can see them if you look at my timeline) Yours look really good and they look great ON YOU. Plus, mine were only 9 days old and they were so so hard to get out.The feeling that Im getting from your post is that you could love them if they werent so hgh maintanence and they didnt feel icky ( I get that by your washing routine, because 6 times in 6 months is NOT enough) When mine feel icky, I start second guessing my desire to dread. All it takes is for them to feel light and soft and that feeling goes away. No more crocheting! If they get fuzzy, wear a tam or a ponytail.My advice? First, try to love them again. It cant hurt right? If you cant, then take them out. Because once you start trying to take them out, theres no going back. Trust me :/.Heres my plan
If you used wax or loc peppa or ANYTHING of the sort, get it out. Use Dawn or whatever it is everyone here suggests. Second, do the baking soda routine that I posted previously. I think if they feel good and look good, then you will fall in love again. It really is worth a try. If you still hate them, take them out.
Knottysleeves said: Even if a set of dreads can physically be saved, sometimes emotionally and psychologically it's easier to cut or comb out and start fresh. Especially if they were started or maintained with poor techniques and the person wants to start over with a different method. Nothing wrong with that. Many of us on this site (including me) have done it and are MUCH happier with our new sets.
soaringeagle said: maybe except for all the hair loss if we can save these and grt her happy with em thats best if not she can start over but her hair will be extra dammaged and thinned out