significance of money and why i loathe the summer
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Hey there,I can relate to your overall frustrations with the way society works, and I certainly have my days where I feel "give-up" worthy, but if you take what you have and do what you love, it ain't so bad!I'm probably only about 4 years older than you, but here is a tiny bit of (maybe) wisdom i can impart...After I graduated from highschool, and the year leading up to it, I felt immense pressure to go to some great school because I had a 4.0 and many people had expectations of me. Luckily, I had a very amazing teacher my senior year of HS who made it clear to his students that you can be successful in life doing a sort of 'un schooling" thing. I took a year off, and admittedly wasted alot of time/ did some stupid shit, but it helped me learn. After one year without school I enrolled in community college and just started taking classes that sounded interesting.... after that year a enrolled in my local university and have been taking classes there for the past year. Recently I had a realization that I am not studying what I want to study (but the only way for me to discover that was by taking the classes and dipping my toes in various fields of study). So finally I have a good idea of what i want to do, and while school can certainly be frustrating, it is difficult to find the kind of job you love without some sort of credentials (shitty i know.)Also, if there is an area that interests you, but you don't necessarily want a degree... look into vocational schools! Much more hands on type of stuff, and you can generally cut the bullshit that some universities make you go through.I'm rambling, but I don't like seeing young people with potential (myself included!) struggling so much. Maybe try some sort of therapy as well, cause I know this world gets me waaaaay down sometimes and I have had plenty of existential moments of "is it really all worth this bullshit?", but you aren't the only one.. and there are ways of making money and enjoying yourself without a degree in business. Explain this to your family, and maybe if they see how unhappy the pressure makes you, they will understand.Good luck and peace!!