I wanted to add to the "natural" discussion :(
Dreading Methods
Maybe it's stupid that I'm starting a whole new thread here, but I just wanted to point out what some others are saying.I can't believe what a big deal is being made out of all of this. It seems totally crazy to me!! We are all here on this website because we have something in common: we love dreadlocks!I myself have thought the term 'natural' has been confusing from day one, just because as some have brought up, nature seems to be a subjective thing. I am of the opinion that anything human made is 'natural' because humans themselves are a naturally occurring phenomenon of this planet.But honestly, why does it matter???? People are unique individuals, and like some people find different learning methods more effective, some people find dread starting methods more effective. Does this mean they are not as genuine or authentic? No... we're all humans. It's all hair.Let me repeat that: it is HAIR.I understand that dreadlocks hold more meaning to some people than others, but the method in which they were created should have no dictation over meaning. I love what my dreads are turning into, and I love the patience that I have acquired in the past seven months because of them. I feel like I am able to express who I am more and I love the feeling of reaching back there and feeling my little dreadies, but here's the deal.... my dreads hold an important role in who I am, but I'm not going to let them define who I am. If for some reason I had to cut them, sure i would be super bummed out and frustrated at all of that time lost... but it's still just hair, and with or without dreads, I am still me.I have personally found it kind of silly how 'natural' methods are pushed on people here, not because I disagree... I like to let my hair do its own thing, but because that person is capable of making their own informed decision. Give them the tools and the info (which this site is awesome at doing), but leave it at that. Don't pressure people.... sometimes people need to find things out on their own, that is how learning occurs. And who knows? maybe crocheting really just works for them, or backcombing or whatever.Bottom line: everyone needs to chill out and come to this community as a place for encouragement and love. No need to point fingers or get angry. We're all people and i think for the most part, people are good.I've learned a lot from this site, but sometimes it does seem like preference is given to people who have undergone certain methods. All of you guys are awesome, and I hope these never-ending arguments can just end... cause I don't even like coming here any more when all the subjects are debates about wax and natural etc..
updated by @bird: 02/14/15 03:51:47AM
I initially rinse with hot water and then right before i get out of the shower I rinse my scalp with freezing cold water. I rinse well/massage scalp... I dunno, maybe my scalp is retarded.I guess I'll try baking soda again... oy vey.
