Spiritual enlightenment, and dreading.
Enjoyment of the present moment without spending it neurotically shaping the future. That is the greatest lesson I have learned going into my 8th month of dreading, and I owe it all to this website. My first few months of dreading were spent waxing and crocheting, looking forward to my future dreads but never really happy with my current state. Now that I've accepted the path of natural growth without persuasion I am happily content with my own dreads, not jealous or looking forward to becoming any other dreadie.