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Thank you and your wallet for not blowin' $50.00 on your dreads.
And, I'm glad the BS/ACV is workin' for ya!
Nothing wrong with TNR to get them started, and then letting them do their own natural thing. That's what I did. They loosened up a lot, so it's kind of like I just let them be all natural, but they have a bit of pre-formed definition. I don't tnr the loosened ends or backcomb or palmroll.
I have heard that before, too.. from black people.. oh, you can't have dreads, that's just for black people.. I'm sorry.. but if hair CAN naturally dread.. then it's supposed to. Regardless of race.
Type 3b?
My husband's hair, and family were the same way. He had thick, curly hair that grew up and out.. like a fro. They made him feel so bad and kept it short, and when he grew it out, he got a pair of electric clippers sprung on him and a 2 inch gap, so he's had his head shaved ever since.. He has talked about letting it grow back out and getting dreads, but he is afraid of his family's opinion.
I know what it's like to be in a foster home, unfortunately my experience wasn't as positive as yours. But congrats....
Discrimination is everywhere.. mostly in ignorance,.. just smile and go on. Do what makes you happy.
Peace K!
Mary