My dreads are coming apart!!!
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thanks guy really put me at ease =) i just love them so much i didnt want them to start coming out! but i will leave them like i have been.
did you look in the health food section? i found mine with the dietary health supplements and stuff. or you could go to the garden section and just invest in a real plant too. but i'd check the health section first before you go with the bar soap. i'm not sure if that would really do anything other than clean them. you use the aloe vera as a gel like you would use a gel on regular hair, so i think it would work better in that form.
when i'm out of aloe sometimes i use a small amount of shea butter, which is a lot easier to find and is still easy to wash out...plus it smells wonderful.
good luck with your search!
Hey there awesome!, and you didn't freak out after your first shower so thats good :P
well all you described is normal especially so young,
as for the frizz, well wear a beanie till you're ready to go out, that way the frizz usually stays down till it gets moving again, or aloe them back,
that what I do, which helps them in the beginning of my day,
Hey there, I don't really have much else to add except good luck! I wish I had gone (or even know what the hell T&R was) and that's coming from someone who backcombed (plus waxed)
be sure to take lots of pics, and give them time
other than that if you were still looking into using crocheting (you said you wanted to use them on the tips? perhaps to blunt them?) in time some of them may blunt naturally, if you decided you still wanted to, I'd probably recommend at least letting your T&R have some time to mature and then try it if you wanted to then,
and you probably also know they hold water like beasty little sponges, lol