I've had my dread babies for 2 weeks and a few days now. I've been just letting them do there thing, and that has had a HUGE impact on me. My hair isn't the only thing I should let do it's own thing. That's life man, things are going to happen that are completely out of our control. That's the way it should be. There's no need in trying to control the tide...just let it happen. No need in helping the wind blow. I've learned all of this just by not caring what my hair looks like when I leave my house. Super liberating. I stressed so much before...I was almost a perfectionist. That shit's just not worth worrying yourself about. Just live.
updated by @shane-northern: 01/13/15 09:55:20PM