I totally agree if she asked not to have them or to remove them I would support her, of course.Her hair is crazy corded already, I'll have to post a picture soon, all the pics I have are older or with her hair tied.Her dad is Jamaican and I'm Portuguese/French Canadian.She doesn't have typical white hair or typical black hair, not even typical mixed hair.Anyway Illimiknotty got me thinking with her comments, but not in the way she imagined, imagine that!Sooo I was thinking.....If my daughters hair is already tight ass crazy thick curls/corded/ringlets/ and I am separating her curly locks *constantly* am I not then standing in the way of her freedom, am I not conforming her by fighting her hair all the time?Freedom to have her hair naturally form and shaped, freedom from chemically laden conditioners and shampoos?Freedom from this misogynistic societies view of what is acceptable for a woman/girl?Am I making her a robot by forcing her hair out of its natural progression/state into these styles deemed appropriate by who ever?Some people are born dreads, others get hair styles.
soaringeagle said: ive known many kids who dreaded from early ages, even birth all loved theyre dreads
only once did i see something that kinda didnt seem right, was a rasta family and the young daughter braided 1 lil section (not sure if she undid a dread or it wasnt dreaded or what) her dad started yelling at her "we dont have plaits we have dreads " insisting she had to have dreads. i was forced to have my hair cit short all the time when young and having it forced on you isnt good i fully support dreading kids hair..but if they ever express a wish to not have dreads they should be alowed to make that choice