hello, i started my first set off with backcombing and crocheting, i wanted big dreads as well and i only had 20, i started over naturally and ive had them for only 1 month and now i have 48 locks.
IF you want to take yours out it is possible, i crochet mine about 7 time sin a 4 month period they were very tight you can go through my pictures and see. anyways to take them out i used
V05 conditioner
comb
hot water
start by soaking your dreads with conditioner(i use a whole bottle taking mine out)
then fill up yourr sink with HOT water,
put your dread underneath the water and you can pick it apart with your fingers, or comb..ALWAYS start from the bottom of your dread and work your way up..(make sure you keep your hair under the water while pickin it apart, the hot water helps or it to be softer and come apart more easily)
i did loose alot of hair, but probably only the same amount of hair i would have lost in 4 months, and a little extra, lost diff amount of hair with diffrent dreads.
and you dont have to go natural even tear and rip works great!! and you'll still have alot more that way, you may think when you first start that they look skinny if you have alot in but over time they WILL fatten out! all tht hair that you would be loosing ever day gets caught in your dreads
hope this helped you out!!
updated by @kelsey-joy: 07/13/15 12:11:25PM