Whip Thehooper, have you never done anything idiotic or embarrassed your parents? Have you never had toys taken away from you?? A lot of kids DO have a 'warm environment' and still end up acting like self-entitled little shitheads.
My kids talk to me about anything and everything and lemme tell ya- some stuff I really don't want to know, but I'm glad that they do feel that comfortable around me. I'd rather they get the info straight instead of from their all-knowing friends.
I'm the first one that'll praise them but I'm also the first one that'll take a paddle to their ass when they do something idiotic or unsafe. And they know that I love them with all my heart, mind, and soul. I give them my all every single day. As a matter of fact I got a Valentine's day card this morning and both kids wrote "To my mother" type notes in it and saying that I treat them like they are my own and they love me for it. (Actually, their birthmother acts more like a sister to them so I am their only mother and I count myself as such. Not aloud, but in my head.)
Honestly, I think it comes down to this girl in the vid not feeling appreciated and not being told 'Thank You' for helping out. I was forced to help out around the house and felt demeaned because of not being appreciated. I vowed that my children would grow up to be independent and responsible adults while still helping around the house BUT also knowing that they were appreciated and exactly WHY they were appreciated-- not just because they were helping out but because they were learning and growing and trying. If I see the effort then I praise and hug. If I see snotty behavior then I call out on it. The snotty behavior always stems from them wanting to play video games instead of taking care of responsibilities first and then playing video games. I've never seen snotty behavior from my kids because they thought they were being taken advantage of.They are never taken advantage of. They are loved and given anything they want within reason if their attitudes and grades are good. Our house is like a Toys R Us.
So I guess all those farm kids' descendents would have a pretty good class action suit, eh? Farm/slave labor.
If her father chose to publicly humiliate her then so be it. He could have done far FAR worse and I think we should be thankful for that. And besides that, you don't know how many times he could have been dealing with her privately and it going in one ear and right out the other. He was at the end of his rope, obviously.
The one time I privately humiliated my mother she kicked me out of the house. Rationality and logic wasn't her strongest virtue back then. So what, I should have burned her house down? Would that have been fair? Because you know, she couldn't deal with me privately and was a pathetic example of a role model. But after a decade of silence and distance we both came together again and said our apologies. We're cool now. Not then, but we are now.
I think that the more publicity this girl gets the worse her attitude will be when she finally grows up.