YOUR HAIR IS BEAUTIFUL! I don't think it is anoying. I have strasight and curly hair and I love it! Your dreads are really awesome!
welcome u might wanna try switching things a bit no mango lime stuff instead use aloe in yoir wash/rinse the oils are too heavy and can make the new growth more resistent to dreading aloe will give u more healthy moisture
then the new growth should take care of itself