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It's really all just discussion, my initial responses were more regarding my perception of the nana nana boo boo type responses. As we know about words with multiple meanings we know that people perceive things differently even more so when it's being read versus being heard. Also, just because someone says it's so, doesn't mean that it is. If that were the case I could say a lot of things and apply it to myself specifically but that doesn't mean that it's a fact. Also, it's already been determined that people have a different view of what "natural dreads" are and that's quite alright. What is fact is that there are many people who use the neglect method and many people who don't. NaturalWomyn said:

LOLs at people getting so worked up about not being included in the "natural" category around here!!!!! Natural dreads are called that, regardless of a definition on the internet, as we all know words can have multiple meanings, because they are allowed to form without using a comb or other un-natural method(T & R, loctician etc). Some of you seriously just sound butt hurt cause you can't be called "natural" who cares?? You did your dreads the way you wanted! Why are you hating on other methods and terminology?

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Here's what I think, I looked the word "natural" up for a definition and there are many definitions and if we all wanted to truly apply "natural" to our process solely based on the discussion and information I've read on your pages, we couldn't even those who use the "neglect" method, the act of separating is not "natural-growing without human care." I definitely appreciate all of the discussion from what I thought to be a simple introduction with a few pics but who was I kidding, nothing I do is simple, . HUMMINGBIRD LOVE GORILLA said:

hahaha exactly, what makes that so called "natural" process the best?? your just damaging your hair like any other process!

Maxe said:

Don't take it personally with all the talk about 'natural' dreads =) ...it's all bs..neglect method isn't more natural than the other methods, they just let them section 'naturally' and then proceed to seperating them unnaturally

updated by @mrsrussell: 07/19/15 07:36:14PM

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Not really sure who's being demanding Island Mamma but just as I chose to introduce myself to the site via this forum and respond to the comments that were left, you could've chosen not too. Also, I've read on this site that even SE uses (dr bronners and baking soda acv washes), which are "products" are they not? I also do not recall anyone demanding that anyone else's language be adjusted but that someone was kind enough to share their school of thought on the discussion.ROFL@ "waxin', rollin', popin' lockin' mani-dreads." A little much don't you think.... Lastly, just as I signed up, I'm aware that I can no longer participate on this site and don't necessarily need that obvious point highlighted. Thanks for stopping by. Island Mamma said:

It says in the banner right under the site name dreadlock methods and maintenance forums site *products free dreads*


***the best place for real dreadlocks no lies no products to buy just truth about healthy dreads
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Seriously it's pretty obvious what this site is about.

Now you dread the way you want great BUT don't expect and demand people here adjust their language and tip toe around your waxin', rollin', popin' lockin' mani-dreads to appease you. Thats just bupkis.

All freaked by the vibe??? Vibe some where, where you fit.

Before you get all shocked and bothered I'm being as honest and forthright as you.

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No worries J, I enjoy the discussion Jdwood said:

Good point. I actually had a few debates on what is "natural" and what is not. Is an ant hill natural? Yes most would say then why is a human city not natural? Okay I will just leave it at that and not hijack your topic MrsRussell.


Maxe said:

Don't take it personally with all the talk about 'natural' dreads =) ...it's all bs..neglect method isn't more natural than the other methods, they just let them section 'naturally' and then proceed to seperating them unnaturally

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Maxe, you're my hero :/)! Maxe said:

Don't take it personally with all the talk about 'natural' dreads =) ...it's all bs..neglect method isn't more natural than the other methods, they just let them section 'naturally' and then proceed to seperating them unnaturally

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Thanks Tara D, I really do appreciate it and glad to know that there is a minority on here . Tara D said:

Welcome =D I'm not a neglecter and I get on just fine here =D I don't use wax or owt, but I did backcomb my dreadies to start. As you say, each to their own =] If everyones journey was exactly the same we'd all be very dull dread heads, and dull we're not xx

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Definitely appreciate your words and compliments NaturalWomyn and agree that there are various perspectives. See ya around
updated by @mrsrussell: 07/13/15 12:08:23PM

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Thanks NaturalWomyn, yep, when I get my locs touched up, they separate or combine depending on what's necessary and palm roll. My locs were started by comb coils which were parted neatly. I'm not sure how my own scalp and hair doesn't look natural or how neatness equates un-natural. As I'm sure everyone knows that different hair types call for different things but there is nothing un-natural about my locs (My own hair, no dye...). I've gotten the feeling that a general consensus on this site is that unless you're using the neglect method then you're not completely "natural." Like I said in my original intro, different strokes for different folks. It's hard not to get offended when comments are phrased as matter of fact statements versus inquires but if the site is as welcoming as you all say, then I will hang around for a bit to see if the vibe changes. I would like to say that for those who have offered kind words, I do appreciate it .

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Thank you J, means a lot because I was really beginning to second guess my decision to join. I definitely appreciate comments and even other views of doing something, just not being mocked because I'm choosing to embark on my journey my way. I'm level headed enough to agree to disagree when points of views are on opposite ends of the spectrum. Thanks for the kind words :0) Jdwood said:

No worries you will get support but expect people to give you their opinions on methods its not judgment IMO just advice that is passionate and based on not wanting someone go through unnecessary troubles and spend their money on something they might not need. BTW welcome to the site I like it here I have been on a lot ( not necessarily dread related) of forums who promoted "acceptance" and "tolerance" but as soon as I would talk about something that was to "different" I would get very nasty comments by a lot of people so far this is the most accepting and diversified site I have found.

MrsRussell said:

Again, not sure what you mean by technical dreading and what exactly you're referring to when you say it looks like they do more than palm roll. If you're referring to my last 2 photos, no one had done anything to my locs other than me which was basically playing around with styling. Here's the thing, being natural for me has been a up hill battle and having to deal with judgements from everyday society; I really didn't think that I would continue to be judged on a site that from an outside glance seems to promote individuality and the journey of dreading. Please let me know if I was mistaken in my observation and I will seek out a community/support environment that fosters that.

MrsRussell said:

I'm not sure what you're referring too "technical dreading" (?) "haha what a funny concept" (?) "looks like they do more then palm toll" (?).

soaringeagle said:

technical dreading haha what a funny concept but looks like they do more then palm toll

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Again, not sure what you mean by technical dreading and what exactly you're referring to when you say it looks like they do more than palm roll. If you're referring to my last 2 photos, no one had done anything to my locs other than me which was basically playing around with styling. Here's the thing, being natural for me has been a up hill battle and having to deal with judgements from everyday society; I really didn't think that I would continue to be judged on a site that from an outside glance seems to promote individuality and the journey of dreading. Please let me know if I was mistaken in my observation and I will seek out a community/support environment that fosters that. MrsRussell said:

I'm not sure what you're referring too "technical dreading" (?) "haha what a funny concept" (?) "looks like they do more then palm toll" (?).

soaringeagle said:

technical dreading haha what a funny concept but looks like they do more then palm toll