dreads or dream job
Introduce Yourself
1. i realize the prescribed narcotics have negative side effects such as addictive properties and difficulty with bodily function such as passing waste. this isnt the first time i've had them. i also know i can deal with pain. i've been snowboarding at a fairly advanced (not professional) level since i was little. i've blown my knee, torn up my shoulder, multiple concussions.... through these most recent x-rays and ct scans i found out i fractured a lower lumbar transverse process (technically "broken back" haha) last year but because my dad and another p.t. both felt i'd strained a ligament, i never got checked out and rode with the pain all season.this was a more serious injury, ive been trying to balance functionality and pain. try sitting in a 4+ hour lecture in a back brace with a broken coccyx. its useless, you wont focus on anything but the pain. but i havent taken any in over a week so thats good. now i take maybe a muscle relaxer once a day if that.2 even though i've wanted dreads and admired them for a long time, they are new to me. if they make it an issue, at this point i would be willing to conform for the time being. i understand that since they are dealing with kids (and their parent's opinion), to some degree appearance is something to consider. i'm not saying that having dreads make you dirty or determine anything about your quality as a person (on the other hand i dont think it makes you superior either).i'm not mad about the stereotypes that can accompany dreads, that wasnt my point in writing this. the responses have been much more interesting than i expected and i appreciate it! perhaps i am being dumb but i disagree with arguing because of or making a disruptive issue about dreads. thats not what i want them to mean to me. and i would not claim they hold religious significance to me personally if that is not true. i think that cheapens me for claiming something untrue for self-gain. and i wouldnt sue them, i think that'd be silly. i dont have the time, money or energy to follow through with something like that. i think there are much more important issues and i think its sad to see some of the trivial things that people waste time on in court.I appreciate your opinion and your words of support, i hope my logic makes sense. i'm not a push-over but i want to think about the bigger picture. me, and my hair are not the most important thing in the world and i dont think think i should treat either as though they are.thank you friend
soaringeagle said: few things...1 get off the pain meds and deal with the pain
the meds are far worsde then the pain itself i had a spine injury too so i know the pains incredible but u must get off the meds as quickly as u can i was off all meds in weeks still had pain but pains prefferable to a lifelong addiction and the stupor and fog caused by meds2 they cannot deny you the job based on dreadsif they "go with someone else" and your more qualified u can suejust go for the interview like you dont even have dreads if they mention the dreads simply say they are a spiritual and religios expression so you cannot cut them and they cannot ask you to..thats it nothing moreyou'll get the job om sure