Hey everyone I have been dreading for 11 months now this is my second time around. The first time I tried I tried the beautician and beeswax method with hair clips and dryers but it just became a complete mess. The second time around I started out with a twist sponge for the first month or two and stopped using it. I have unusually soft hair for an African American probably because of the Trinidadian from my fathers side which definitely has some Indian(the country) roots. After 6 month of growth they still weren't locking so my girl friend tied knot at the top of the twist and they started to loc a little I play in and twist my hair with my fingers often but after reading a lot of post I am thinking that this is not a good I deal so no more twisting or knotting my hair and I am going to go from once a month wash to twice a week. after 8 months the back of my hair wasn't locking at all so I knotted those up last month. I need to know if this is okay or have I done irrevocable damage and any recommendations for a African American with unusually soft hair as far as shampoo or moisturizers I have really greasy hair although I don't use products at all. I need full hair care plan please any and all help is welcomed.
