lol yeah!
my hair lady got on the phone during one appointment and i dont know who was on the other end..but she said, "you know that tool we made? im using it right now and its working." :| it basically looked like a large, homemade crochet hook.
that was when i started to get scared. she had assured me that she had done caucasian hair and she acted very confident that she knew what she was doing.
oh well...cant beat a dead horse! time to move on and be positive! i feel lucky that she didnt use wax, but used more of a grease on them. after two hot water washings, some soakings, so scrubbings, and vinegar rinses...i dont see or feel any gunk left. im not saying its all out, because im not the expert! but even when i squeeze the parts that did actually dread nicely i dont feel anything oily or greasy anymore.
now my hair is just a joyous mess and i love it RIGHT NOW for what it is! as it changes and matures the right way...ill love it for what it becomes.
i hope that sharing my awful story will give other people a little bit of guidance and patience to just do it the natural way!