nah it's all good, Alden in particular stresses that, he was one of our first members and has had crocheted locks and restarted more naturally so he knows firsthand, plus tells people to read about other people's personal experiences on this site be4 deciding what they want, then follows through with their decision, which is really how it should be.
so in a way, I think we're both on the same page.
updated by @neil-coe: 07/23/15 04:27:44PM