Hey,
I fully understand what you mean, but I really want those dreads. Especially since I wnt to leave the house as soon as possible (nothing against my parents, I just feel I need to be free).
As a job, I want to be a metalworker, restoring classic car bodywork. eople who do that are never "clean" at work, they will always have oil, metal shavings, paint, etc... on them, and they dont NEED to look "good", since they don't have much customer "relation" (the boss does of course!).
The way I feel them refusing dread,locks is as if someone said I wasn't allowed to listen to a certain kind of music, I had to listen to what they like... (they never said tha,t its just an example)
I don't feel like going to england anyway, we're not doing it for "holiday", we're going there for sort of "work" (we have to deliver a load of stuff for friends).
I would love dreads like these: http://www.dreadlockssite.com/photo/1-month-2-4?context=latest
I find they are lovely, dont look messy, and very presentable...
I tried showing my dad a few pictures of "nice" dreads (I love all dreads, I just wanted to show him the neatest types), he saw that picutre and said "theyre not dreads". He must have thought alld reads are like Bob Marley. I told him theyre not, and this is what I want, he just walked out the room, after admitting he didnt think they were dreads... I had many other pictures of "neat" dreads like tha,t he didnt care...
Mike Gentry said:
You won't like my answer. But if you live there, they pay your bills, give you food etc., honor them and wait until you are out on your own. I hear what you are saying but you need to respect your parents. Yes it is your hair your body yadda yadda, but you are still their son in their house and a reflection of them to others.
Perhaps a better compromise would be to show them the tear and rip method and show how your can can look presentable, and pursue other avenues when you get back from the trip.
But your parents are right when it comes to work and life etc. There are some members here who asked their boss first. There is a responsibility for everything we do in life, sometimes what we want does not fit in. I wanted natural dreads, but because of the world I live in I needed to clean up my head as fast as I could or forget all about dreads. It isn't ideal but it is the world I live in. I am a grown man but I still am a reflection on my wife who is a military officer. When I go to functions etc., with her I need to be presentable, period. That is life, so I had to choose help them a long or get a hair cut. Tis life