Hello

Hi

I am a crazy Dutchy. I am 31 years old. Working as a mental healthcare guy. Not sure what to call it. I tend to use my own experiences more than theory out of books. It’s basically helping others getting through the difficult times I already went through. Because I know how I did it, and what I felt I dare to call myself an expert by experience and I am convinced this path is better and more helpful than the regular mental healthcare. There they don’t really care they only seduce you with their chemicals and they tell you what to do and what not to do. Like they own you. They also only look at things someone is not good at or can’t do, where as I tend to look only for things someone is good at.
 
Anyway yesterday I started my journey. So I thought let's sign up on this forum. It's always nice to get some advice (or give some) when needed. I decided I want dreadlocks years ago. Now I finally made the decision to just do it. So yesterday was the last day I brushed my hair. Brushing is for photoshop users and teeth anyway. The reason I want dreads, started because I really like the aesthetics. Now after years, I am currently flipping my whole life upside-down, I decided to go as natural as possible on whatever I do. I can’t say I am a true vegan yet, but I am making progress and am satisfied with the steps I made and am making. Basically everything comes together now and because of this dreadlocks came back into the picture. My current profile picture is what my hair looks like at the moment.
 

The Undutchable

 

welcome

i do alot of that too and am working on a new site too www.exposetheabuse.com thats all about overcomming abuse and ending uit  we will have a lot of peer counceling  amongst many more things so you might be interested in helping out with that too

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My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1

Cheers

Yes I am interested in that, but I am not from the US. So it could be a problem unless it's online counseling. I do prefer face-to-face contact but would like to get some more info on your initiative. Although I was never abused, unless the "care" given by the regular institutes counts as such.

 

updated by @the-undutchable: 02/17/15 03:42:07PM

its online though it will be worldwide

and will have a "safety net' of safe houses worldwide and much much more

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My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1

It's funny. Lately I run into a lot of good stuff, but it's all coming unexpected. I joined this forum because of the dreads I just started, but end up talking about exposing abuse and stuff. I love it. I think it all has to do with love for everyone and everything. Sending out good vibes will return good vibes as well. I'll keep an eye on that website for now and we'll see what happens. Life brings such wonderfull things if you won't expect anything. Already feel at home. 

cheers man.

updated by @the-undutchable: 02/17/15 10:17:17PM

were a dread community   we may come together for the dreads but  then find the community has so much more then dreads

and now that the sites upgraded so every profile can have its own forums etc...its unlimmited in how far we can expand  the community

in fact we been working towards a real on the land community and that might have just worked out tonight

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My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1