Take heart, Heather. Some people spew this sort of stuff out all the time, to anyone, about anything. Perhaps this woman was trying to impress her boyfriend or her friends. I don't think it was specifically about your locs. It could've been about something you were wearing, whatever. These people pick on the smallest distinction they can spot. At worst it becomes bullying, at best it's just snide comments. What's the bet if she'd been on her own she wouldn't have had the courage to say it? LOL
Which is the best you can do - walk away and laugh it off to yourself. Know that your dreads are fine, and when you feel confident enough to show them without a bandana, I'm sure you'll get lots of admiring comments.
Having said that, and on a personal note, when I decided to get dreadlocks, I took on board that some people are prejudiced against them. I'd have to be ready to take some flak. The best defense against that, I believe, is dreaducation. Be prepared to explain to friends and strangers what dreads are about, their naturalness, and no, they're not dirty, I wash my hair, I don't smoke ganga, I'm not a Rasta, etc etc. Whatever your reasons are. Goes with the territory, I guess.
See it as a trial by fire that you came away from with grace and dignity. From me now - love and hugs!
updated by @hippiegal: 07/23/15 12:10:03AM