I have a HUGE congo that is giving me some grief.

morning/afternoon ladies and gents!
i didnt quite know which category this fit into so i thought id try my luck here.

NOW, im absolutely loving me dreads. im 8 months in. i have a GIANT congo on the left side of the back of my neck. i already have a beaverstail ( which i think is totally kickass ) but this is ridiculous.

Its thicker than my wrist yo.
i do NOT want a dread thicker than my wrist.
everytime i pull it apart, i wake up and its all back together.
Luckily, this congo isnt too far along. at the moment the victim dreads are just kind of SHEETED together, so i feel i still have time to do something about it.

any tips or info would be GREATLY apprecciated.
You are more than welcome to share past experiences with sort of thing.

thanks guys.

http://www.dreadlockssite.com/photo/oh-snap?xg_source=activity
(This is a picture i just took of it)

updated by @miles-robertson: 01/13/15 09:08:43PM

Maybe separate it then hair wrap the two sections so it doesn't grow back together over night! Just an idea.

be thourough when seperating to get them apart as much as u can close to the scalp

do it wet

add olive oil if need be

lil wrappings not a bad idea till they settl;e

but ya still will need to be thourough bout seperating the roots

acter u rip em try to pull up any hairs at the scal still connevting

then push the hairs towrds the dreads take 2 fingers btween the dreads press against the scalp and seperate m pusshing the roots towards the dreads they belong in

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