hey Joy, sorry i only just now saw ur request and messages. I don't check often enough. my advice really depends on how far along you are and what method you're using. I went completely neglect (except I separate) I wash my hair with Dr. Bronners and once or twice a month with selsun blue for my scalp. I honestly just leave it be. Wash, shake dry, put in a tam or hair band it back, not too tight. Not much to it than that. Just keep separating, hope all goes well for you!
welcome not a bad way to start but id suggest giving natuiral a try 1st