I am so sick of trying to make everyone else happy...

Everyone has an opinion of what should be...or how it should be. Remove "how" or "should" and just be.

Today, I start taking my own advice.

~ smiles ~

updated by @sarah-smile: 01/13/15 09:38:23PM

ok.umm is this your introduction since its in introduce yourself?

is it a rant ? should it be a blog or moved to life issues facing dreadies?

just trying ti figure out where it belongs haha

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My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1

its not your job to make others happy but it is your responsibility to make yourself happy so find what makes u happy and go for it

--
My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1

haha think i fixed it now. more of a life issue, i guess

just from gathering different reactions from people in the last few weeks...verbal or physical reactions...has opened my eyes to a lot of things. hard to summarize

soaring eagle said:

ok.umm is this your introduction since its in introduce yourself?

is it a rant ? should it be a blog or moved to life issues facing dreadies?

just trying ti figure out where it belongs haha

i've always thought that making other people happy would always make me happy. i'm starting to see the distinction, though...between pleasing others and what's right for me. though i'd like it to be so, they might not always coexist

often othwrs try to plan our lives for us they think thry know whats best fir us and oush us into following in their footsteps

sometimes with force ..

in high schools its often the kid with the most potentujkial thats closest to suicide becayse they are pushed so hard to suceeed and make the family happy they have no time to do what makes them happy

then all it takes is 1 less then perfect grade and ..they are a comoete failurw..not happy themselves..not making their family happy..and over the edge they go

u cant control what others want from yiu

you cant libve uo to their expectations alone

the 1 thing you can..and must do..is find happiess within you

then when yiu are happy share your happiness with others

they may not be happy with the choices you made but if they care they will be happy that you are happy

--
My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1

wholeheartedly agreed. finally taking some steps in that direction...

soaring eagle said:

often othwrs try to plan our lives for us they think thry know whats best fir us and oush us into following in their footsteps

sometimes with force ..

in high schools its often the kid with the most potentujkial thats closest to suicide becayse they are pushed so hard to suceeed and make the family happy they have no time to do what makes them happy

then all it takes is 1 less then perfect grade and ..they are a comoete failurw..not happy themselves..not making their family happy..and over the edge they go

u cant control what others want from yiu

you cant libve uo to their expectations alone

the 1 thing you can..and must do..is find happiess within you

then when yiu are happy share your happiness with others

they may not be happy with the choices you made but if they care they will be happy that you are happy