I searched around a little and didnt see the answers to these questions.
I am certain they are there but I dont have time to sift through it all right now so thought it would be easier to just ask.
1. I think I remember seeing somewhere on these forums that you are not supposed to towel dry your hair for "neglect". Am I just supposed to let it air dry itself and not touch it at all?
2. Is there anything I can do to my hair to make it a little more manageable while is starting to lock itself up? example when i work in my garden it keeps falling in my face/also I used to bun it at the top of my head while i sleep so it doesnt choke me out. Any alternatives that wont hinder the process or should I just man up and get used to it?
a few questions.
@sarswimmer
8 years ago
11 posts
1- I learned this recently as well. Air dry, shake dry, blow dry, just don't physically touch it.
2- Anything you do to confine your hair will slow the dreading process, for me it's just a matter of give and take. I can't let my hair hinder my life, so I accept that what I am doing will slow down my progression.
Thanks sarswimmer, I had been hand drying my hair with a towel...seemed to do more harm than good as my hair seemed less matted after.
I had a feeling any sort of restrictions placed on hair would slow the dreading but I was wondering if in some cases it can absolutely halt the process.
updated by @irie: 07/17/16 10:16:59PM
@sarswimmer
8 years ago
11 posts
Technically no, but soaring eagle was telling me about a situation where a member was wearing hats all day every day and only had a couple of dreads form after multiple years.
@soaring-eagle
8 years ago
29,640 posts
what i do at night so it doesn't all wrap around me is simply flip it up over the pillow or headboard..or alternately hang it off 1 side of the bed
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@soaring-eagle
8 years ago
29,640 posts
Well, towel drying or any rubbing really can create a lot of knots 1 day.. and then next completely erase 3 months of progress
the less you mess with it the better .
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Gotcha I think my hair is different than most maybe because of the thickness and length, idk. I mess with my hair a lot, been putting it in a ponytail often because of swimming and summer, separate daily and most days more than once. Think I'm about 4 months into neglect and there is a lot of progress. 1 thing I've noticed is my bangs are about shoulder length and don't have a single knot.
@soaring-eagle
8 years ago
29,640 posts
that part dreads slowest anyway
but try not towel drying a couple weeks see if u notice a difference
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