The best way to get them to look neater is to let them dry... Then wash again. Then dry and wash again. Over and over for the next year.
Dreadlocks are frizzy tangled hair. They always will be. It's just a matter of to what extent. The more mature they are, the less frizzy. And vice verse.
nothing they are going to change alot over the next year you gotto let them accept the frizz
if you keep them looking the way they did the day they were started they wont ever progress
just let them do what they do