If you have short hair...
Dread Maintenance
My best advice is to completely forget the day you started. As much fun as it can be toannounceto others that your locks are a year old, it's just a day. I have no idea at all when I started. I know that I started them a little before I met my wife. That was over 5 years ago. So mine are somewhere between 5 and 6 years old. probably closer to 6, now. But your start date is nothing special.
Also, if you worry too much about the progress, your body reacts. Many people find that worrying actually makes their hair thin and fall out more often than when they are calm. So worrying can actually adversely affect your progress.
A few months to me is different than a few months to you. For me, it took about a year to see any real change. For Eagle, a few months may have only been 2-3. For you, it might be 4-5. Everyone'shair and process are slightly different. If you forget how old they are and just look at yourself as having locks now, instead of seeing yourself as "will have locks someday", The messy stage won't bother you as much.