Hey there Grey, I'm in a hurry but just wanted to throw in (yet another) comment.
Again, NO disrespect to anyone or to anyone's personal experiences, because they are ALL valid. I just want to say that "playing" anything (hard to get, or whatever else) is not the way to have a real, lasting relationship with anyone. Be genuine at all times, ask God for help and guidance at all times...your higher self will tell you, without exception, that you were created as an individual and there is never any reason to be anyone but who you are and to act accordingly. If you feel in love, my friend, be IN LOVE! The truth is, if the lady you love is a true person she will take your example of sincerity and be genuine, too. And maybe that won;t happen this minute, but maybe she will learn from you.
Whatever we do, we are, at all times , teaching others. And the question comes down to being pretty simple: Are we teaching truth or are we teaching lies?
Well praise God.. That's gnarly bro.. Hopefully she wises up. Glad to hear ur accepting it n whatnot tho. U have no choice but to accept whatever happens really. Worrying gets u Nowhere! Id take that 15 year old chicks advice tho n play a lil more hard to get.. Nvr fails lol
GreyGargoyle said:Honestly, you guy's are great. This is why I LOVE this site. Thanks everyone. Love you all!
But just to give you guy's an update on the situation...
We went on a movie date tonight and at first it was horrible. I really thought that I screwed up by taking her but as soon as we got to the movies everything changed. It went from horrible to heaven in a matter of minutes and I fell in love again. She makes me happy with just a smile. Tonight made me realize just WHY that I love her so much. But anyways, it wasn't enough to change the situation yet but I feel as if after tonight we did accomplish some bonding and we have both found some level of acceptance. I'm more accepting of her decision and I still feel as if it's just a hurdle in the relationship and she seems to be more accepting of having a future that includes being with me. Like I said before...I'm gonna have to give it time, love and hope. It's a lot like growing dreads...hope this doesn't take so long though. It's much tougher and painful too though.
I dunno, dude...I think it's kind of unfair to advise you to accept this as a good thing ultimately. Seriously, no disrespect to anyone, because I know what you mean. I've very seldom seen something in life that doesn't turn out for the better, eventually. BUT at the time, the pain is so monumental, it's like - Who cares about tomorrow? TODAY feels like I'm worse than dying...I'm alive and in HELL. That kind of pain is fucked. There's a lot of it in life, but it's still fucked.
Things have a way of working themselves out man. My fiance left me about 3 months ago, and now she realizes what she had and wants me back. I am a little confused but I think we decided to move out of state and travel the country working along the way.....weird huh.
is she bipolar? wait 4 days even if u gotta camp out in the woods tell her your not leaving yet but your giving her space have her take u to where u camp so she knows just where to find u wait give her room to think dont contact her just stay nearby tell her in 4 days if shes still sutre then you'll leave
