so as of right now i have no dreads and i am trying to decide what is the best way to go about this. i do not want a bunch of wax in my hair for the next ten or fifteen years. but i also dont want to go the natural route just to have my dreads turn out to be well ugly for a lack of a better word. how much control do i actually have over the natural dreading process. and are there any other methods that dont require wax? can anybody help me with this?