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nothing to do with dreads... but just wanted some advice... Is this really weird?

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By: lino sanchez
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So on sunday I meet this amazing girl at a giant public pillow fight and like... right now it's a HUGE clash of happiness and optimism, and feeling hurt and pessimistic. basically I kept chasing her throughout the crowd that night, well not literally CHASING her, but scoping her out.. not like a creep! just I reallyyyy wanted to meet her. she was like reallyyyy hippiesh like hugging hella people and being friendly to everyone who said hi to her, and all that. So I finally manage to go up and talk to her, she says hi and seems friendly and hippie dances her way off. damn. then later I go up to her again, we talk for maybe 12 seconds, then she hippie dances her way off. fuckk is she one of those types that you just can't hold on to?? so i see her chatting with some other guys, and more guys and yadiyada, i mean she's dancing all over the place so naturally hella guys go up to her, but no guys seem to be able to hold her talking for more than a minute or two at the most. so finally i just sit there and almost give up. then she walks by me, and is like hey! so i'm like fuckk this is my LAST CHANCE!!! so I get her to talk to me for like 40 minutes and get her to sit down with me, and things go pretty well. so she seems really intersted in me, hugs me, leans near me, and when her friend comes to tell her that shes leaving, she just kinda politely shoos her off, which was amazing, cuz i thought she would have used that as her excuse to ditch me.. so then she hears music playing somewhere and drags me with her, and i ask for her email, and she gives it to me, and give me her number to, voluntarily. turns out that this was the SAME girl i saw at the bluegrass festival and lovefest back in october! (but was too shy to talk to) so i say how crazy that is, and she smiles and says that it was meant to be. sounds like a good deal doesn't it? well there are some MAJOR things that are troubling me. First off... she's 22!!!! and I'm 17!!! I swear she looked like 18!!! I was NOT expecting her to say 22! it troubled me so much that I just didn't want to believe it. I told her I was a senior in highschool, and she still seemed interested in me. another thing that really bothers me, is that she seemed REALLLYY blazed. like she was smoking a joint, and just was spacey as heck. its not weed i have a problem with, it's just the idea that she might have only talked to me cause she was high... and didn't actually realize what she was doing.. or maybe shes just one of those really free love hippie types who will just "love" anyone... look I think thats great and have nothing against that at all, but i mean.. I really did think I was special... bottomo line... Is it weird that I want to be friends with this 22 year old??? I can't help but think that it's just really... just seems wrong.. even though i really want to be her friend.. :(
Aurora Borealis
03/03/10 09:06:28PM @aurora-borealis:
Yeah, I agree, give her another chance, but if it doesn't work out then you'll find someone equally as great or better. Let whatever happens happen.

Lonnie Berg
03/02/10 08:14:13PM @lonnie-berg:
You'll never know till you talk to her Brother, give her the benefit of a doubt. Something coulda came up with her so the weekend just couldn't happen. Give it another try.

lino sanchez
03/02/10 06:38:17PM @lino-sanchez:
well bascially. this weekend sucked. I got stood up both nights in a row. she's the one who invited me to hang on sunday, yet never answered her phone, or ever called me back. I hate it how its impossible to tell. she asks me... then doesn't even call? I don't even know what to think or how to feel. Most people will just say move on, but I'm willing to swallow my pride and give her another chance this weekend (me calling her again...)

Aurora Borealis
02/23/10 08:23:35PM @aurora-borealis:
well congratulations! i know it will go well. (:

lino sanchez
02/22/10 10:09:21PM @lino-sanchez:
thankss... well. after being paranoid about her not answering my calls, she finally picks up today, and I ask her to hang this weekend and she says yes. hell, she even invites me to her place. this is a weird feeling of, omg yes! i'm so happy!, and oh shit, what am I getting myself into. Eh, I'd probably feel that way about ANY girl. lol. i haven't gotten anywhere with any girl in my LIFE, and have been waiting YEARS for an opportunity like this. It's just a bit overwhelming.

Aurora Borealis
02/22/10 06:49:43PM @aurora-borealis:
I feel your pain brother. Try being 17 in Nebraska. It's not too fun here. But good luck! (:

02/21/10 01:55:07PM @jboy:
hell yeah SE and Lonnie, id have to agree...give it a try and you may find an amazing friend or even a partner at that..either way theyre both needed in ones life to be fully happy...dont regret anything that once made you smile bro..

02/20/10 12:09:27PM @gratefulnick:
I don't think age difference has much to do with love, But the age difference can complicate things for you. I mean she could be a little mature for you, but your still young and if you don't try, you wont know.But even having hippie chicks as good friends is awesome i wish I had more hippie chick friends. Where are you Hippie Girl. haha hope all goes well for ya

Lonnie Berg
02/17/10 11:26:14PM @lonnie-berg:
Like SE said, she just may be a Love freak but don't let that stop ya from finding out, if ya got a dream persue it, if it's meant to be it'll happen but you'll never know unless you try. Keep it in perspective and if it doesn't work out....hey she made ya happy for one nite. Cherish that.

02/17/10 10:57:14PM @iain:
eh being high isn't like being drunk, of course she talked to you cuz she wanted, just don't worry about any of the stuff that is bothering you, you pulled that cord remember? just go with it, lmao

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