a few questions.
what i do at night so it doesn't all wrap around me is simply flip it up over the pillow or headboard..or alternately hang it off 1 side of the bed
So i should just go for it it and stop worrying so much
Yes try to embrace the changes. Control is something humans try to do so much. The less we try to control the less stressful it is. You'll have your up and down days. But in the end it will workout.
dreading is therapeutic
anorexia is ultimately about control, when they feel they cannot control anything in their lives except what they eat or don't eat it becomes the 1 thing they can control, till it takes control of them
anyways by letting go, dreading naturally and not feeling any need to control their hair ..letting it be uncontrolled they can let go of all the other things controlling their lives
i don't know how many anorexics I've met that would have died if they didn't start to let go of control and let their hair dread as it wanted to
13 isn't much you really won't find anything worth using any cheaper then that bronners is 15 as an example
anything cheaper then 13 is going to be toxic crap really bad for dreads
you could find 13 dollars walking 10 blocks in any city
some people can get 600 dollars in an hour panhandling
point is it isn't hardtop get 13 bucks for shampoo especially if its just once every few months
the dreadlockshampoo.com ones are big bars if you use a soap saver so they don't melt from being damp they last a real long time
i would, monthly might be ok for a few years but after seeing numerous people have severe weakening i really no longer recommend using it at all
the charcoal shampoo does a better job without being so harsh it turns your skin into a paste