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Agian, please dont run your fingers thru my hair!

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austin i didnt realize this was so important to you because in a way, you've pushed me out... out of your.... journey of individualism.... i want to be a part of this journey with you....

in a way you took me off guard
but i'm here for you because i love you.

can i join you on your path? i won't harm what you're doing...... but... is it okay if i rid you of frizz in the morning? will you not get mad at me? lol.

i understand now....more than i did before......
...but please remember i express my love to you thru touch.....and im never trying to disturb you or your locks......but after expressing my affection in that way for over a year n a half..... this new journey is going to take an adjustment period.....for both of us.......
regardless.....i love YOU and am here for you forever.....

Agian, please dont run your fingers thru my hair!

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I know i know, the thing is that im not about the look so much as it would seem its more the experience that draws me

soaringeagle said:

ask her why she keeps doing it what makes her think they will look bad

Agian, please dont run your fingers thru my hair!

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Ive explained it to her that i am not ruining my hair by trying to make it look like some ego drivin image i am washing it in the cheapest way and lettin it be.She thinks it will look desgusting once its locked up or mabe she just hates the frizz idk but heres the thing,I used to annoy her in the same way, and before i started locking my hair i would ask her not to stop finger combing it cuz i liked how it felt but its gotten to be a bad habbit of mine (finger combing) so ive decided to turn a new leaf over and let it lock and embrase and learn from the experience and uniqe people i encounter throughout my journey.I just dont know how to best settle the issue and keep posative that she will soon understand and embrace my journey/decision as well so i can stop fretting how she is spiteful and misunderstanding of my outlook and reason on the subject.Any advise for either me or her from anyone?
updated by @oostan-heimach: 01/13/15 09:01:08PM

My girlfreind is all annoyed at me cuz i wont let her run her fingers thru my hair.

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yess! thats awesome us too, and hers is so much thicker than mine it is dreading fastly..

My girlfreind is all annoyed at me cuz i wont let her run her fingers thru my hair.

Life Issues Facing Dreads

hahaha at least that cute, but no my girlfreind has become more open to my dread journey and has started on one of her own :D

My girlfreind is all annoyed at me cuz i wont let her run her fingers thru my hair.

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Thank you all i knew thered be somerhin good for this

soaringeagle said:

like biz said but if that fails tell her you'll cover your hands in nair then run yours through her hair ask her if its ok to run yoirds through hers if it made her bald

My girlfreind is all annoyed at me cuz i wont let her run her fingers thru my hair.

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What should i do? Lol
updated by @oostan-heimach: 01/13/15 09:01:07PM

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