Time to Cut My Dreads.
General Talk
Thanks everyone... I definitely feel waves of relief and self assurance washing over me from reading each post. I really like Patty Hanes and SE's ideas of not telling yourself negative thoughts!!!! It's so true.. when you hear a negative thought you let it define you and you revel in it for weeks, but when you hear something positive you're always striving for more, or wondering if it's really true! Time to reverse my negative thinking.
It's so true, I can be a good student, in shape and happy WITH dreads, cutting my hair is not going to change the way i feel INSIDE..that's not how it works.
I came really close to cutting them this morning, it's pretty scary. The only reason I didn't was because I ended up texting the guy and telling him I had a great time and thanks for a fun night, and he said he had fun too, and wanted to see live music together.
I wish I didn't need someone else to make me feel worthwhile, or valued. I have a lot of heart work to do. Hah. Thanks everyone.. you're all beautiful too. We all have our bad days.