have ya ever noticed how beautiful the ppl on this site are?
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I think that the contradictions between actions and body language and conscious/unconscious thoughts usually make people much more interesting. Yeah, of course there are always going to be insincere people who are trying to trick you in one way or another but that is usually pretty obvious and they can just be ignored or occassionally pitied (Usually find myself doing that when it's because of insecurity. Not sure why exactly.).
But most doctors are still going to be slightly disgusted at your foot falling off, or careworkers aren't going to particularly enjoy cleaning up after people, but they still do it and that's what makes it amazing and with a smile! Even if it is somewhat false. In fact, if your doctor did enjoy your pain you'd probably be a little bit worried...!
In fact, some of the things I'm most grateful forwere whenmy friends helped me despite notparticularly wanting to.
So, I guess I thinkit's the 'why' not the 'what' that makes the difference between trusting someone and not. From them being amazing or not.
Dave said:
To make a long story short through martial arts i started to study the humans instinctive side(body language,micro-expressions, profiling etc..) and it is very hard to trust someone when they say one thing but their body screams another.I have hardened(for the worse) over the years but am taking steps to soften towards people(yes i do have a family, g.f of 21 yrs and a 16 yr old daughter).I am finding forums are a great way to approach like minded people without the distraction of physically interacting with them so iallow a measure of trust to build through verbal interaction.I am really quite approachable and a big kid at heart, im just not that into people in general, but i'm changing...Charlotte said:
Why do you generally dislike humans?