I want to add more dreads, but I have to go to court
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Thanks girl! Yeah, as parents we should be able to make that call. Also since my parents feel the way they do about my hubby, i dont want them to be saying anything about him to silas and confuse him about his new daddy. Appreciate the kind words.*peace NaturalWomyn said:
aww mama our situations are soo similar! I don't see my parents like I said but my hubbys mom is a lil nutty and I don't like to leave my kids alone with her and her new CrAzY girlfriend. She doesn't care enough to take us to court but it does cause a lot of friction. It's not that I think she'd do anything to harm them I just think her judgment is a lil iffy based on past situations. So I feel more comfortable when me or my husband is there too. I think you'll get outta there with just a mediation. YOU'RE the Mom so it's up to YOU what environment you want your children in and weather you want to be there with them or not. Good Luck we're rooting for ya! Much Love
Lacy Hepp said:I didnt know that either. Its more for if theres a divorce or death. I lived with my folks a year and a half. I got married a year ago, my son was 2 and a half. We just had a baby 3 months ago, and ever since we have told my folks that when we see them we would like to be all together. That way when they see one grandkid, they can see both. Well they didnt want to do that. They just want to take my oldest son home with them to spend the night. Anyway my oldest, Silas has some behavior issues around them, but he doesnt when me and his dad are present. So we have been trying to work with him on that. My parents dont understand and think we think they are bad grandparents and have to be supervised. There's no explaining it to them. They blame it all on my husband. Were just trying to raise our son right.
NaturalWomyn said:That must be nerve racking. At least you're not going in there having to defend yourself as a criminal though. I say be yourself and you'll be fine. That's crazy I didn't realize grandparents could do that! I haven't seen my parents since before my kids were born they're 6 & 8 now. I would let them they just haven't really tried. Anyway Best of Luck & Many Blessings
Lacy Hepp said:my folks are taking my to court for grandparent visitation. but the crazy thing is im not keeping their grandson from them. it kinda a long story. They dont like my husband.
I may just wait on my hair. Im in no hurry, ive been adding gradually anyway.
soaringeagle said:whats the court for
i personasly wouldnt worry bout it but if u are just wait till aft6er
ive actualy been before a judge with dreads b4