Allergic to most plants- dread help??
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Jaysun, I don't really know how this all started since your replies aren't showing up (save for this final one). I do see what Angel said and I think that it wasn't put very well. I have found that communicating via the computer, leads to all kinds of misunderstandings and miscommunications. Alot of times here, we give each other the wrong idea and hurt feelings. It doesn't make it right, but it is true. From your reply, I get several things. You are in an incredibly difficult and painful situation...and that you are angry. I would be angry too. But you can't take it out on everyone you come across who doesn't understand or makes an ackward comment. I say that, not for them or the sake of being polite...but for you. Because regardless of what you have...illness, lack of money,pain, suffering...anger will turnn you into something you don't want to be. Anger will finish you off. I know that this life isn't easy, and some of us have it even harder. It is easy to get lost in circumstance. My gluten problem is a difficult thing for me at the moment...that will pass. And compared to what you are going through, it is very insignificant. I have two special needs daughters. One who is Autistic, and one who is Bi-Polar. They are by far my biggest challenges in life. I don't mention them to in any way compare our situations...I mention them because I wanted you to know that I don't have a perfect life...infact, I don't think anyone does. I just know that we come together here and all we can offer is our point of view based on our life experiences. And sometimes we fail to understand each other. And sometimes we hurt each other. I am sorry Angel's words hurt you. But just as you are more than you experiences and the anger you expressed here is only a small part of who Jaysun is...so too, it goes for Angel. She made an unfortunate reply...we all do at times. I wish you well...I will pray for your peace and comfort...that is about all I can really do. Blessings brother
jayyson said:
when i read what you wrote you disgust me for real. ok you ready to google your day away URETEROPEIVIC JUNCTION OBSTRUCTION, CONSTANT PYELONEPHRITIS, STRICTURE,RETROPERITONEAL FIBROSIS, CONSTANT HEMATURIA, IREVEARSABLE 10TH STAGE HRDRONOPHROSIS, DUPLICATE COLLECTING AND FILTER SYSTEM, .i hope you google these words and if you dont have to google them then your my hero lol. and you kinda do need a phd in alot of feilds to understand me lolis that acceptable cause theres more thats just what i know off the top of my hear cause of my "lack of reasearch"???? was it that?cause c-mondo you really need to know all those terms? because im well aware of all of them every second stabbing pain, blood in urine, throw up cant ever work again,deficient in most vitamens mainly protein and viteman b all of them.im 32 urinate 10-20 times a night urine literally drips out every time. so now after really reading your GLUTIN condition thats a grain to me and so is polysystic for that matter i would take polysystec throuout my body over what i have . so im glad all you have to do is read labels???????????????? try being 32 with 25 year old wife twins girl on way lost house that i bought at 19 business i started from nothing. try not being able to sit for any lenth stand for any lenth and lay for any lenth. and im aware kidney surgery is no joke ive had 3 of them but did i feal like telling you all this NO but you insulted my intelagance due to my GRAMMER????? it didnt affect my 98 I.Q i just took to for placement to go into NON payin service work. and im sorry you saying you husband is ignorant and wont reasearch his conditionwell if he urinated pure blood for a week he will get helpor when he faints while urinating or when he cant pick up his 15lbsibiling. and yes i have terrible computer grammer and puntuationand spelling are horrible on computer. and as far as the sick and tired of being sick and tired comment i can write a book on that if you know what i mean. does that better describe the blah blah part i hope so cause it def didntsolve the grammer/PUnctuAtIoion<jk have a nice day and keep your eye site good to read those labelsjk for real good luck with condition. OH DID I MENTION BI- POLAR ON TOP OF THAT, ANDECT. ECT. ECT. and dont bitch about the ect cause im not writing a encyclapedia on that aspect oh and this i jaysun drumbouy??? dont know why i picked that name last night
Angel Frye said:
Jaysun, I'm sorry. My temper is frayed and trying to decipher what you originally wrote put me over the edge. Lack of grammar and punctuation on the 'net drives me batshit crazy sometimes. I just don't think you should have to have a 'phd' to decipher what someone is trying to say. I'm not going to block you or ignore you or anything like that. I think everyone should be heard here. Everyone deserves to be seen and heard. But your grammar pushed a sensitive button with me.
About a congential birth defect, don't you think it might be worth your while to study and understand all that you can(and all that is available) about it? What if something happens to you and doctors need to have you explain to them what is wrong with you because of it? My husband has polycystic kidney disease and he still refuses to do any research on it. He expects ME to take care of HIM when it's pretty plain to us all(his employer included) that he needs to do more to maintain good health while he can before he has to go on dialysis. But he refuses. He wants to remain ignorant about it.
I don't know, man. I guess my point is that if you don't care about yourself then who the hell will? Doctors aren't mind readers and pointing to something and saying, "it hurts" isn't very damn descriptive. They can't help you if you don't use good descriptives and language usage is a big part of that. So is the patient being responsible and proactive and trying to manage their health. I know that if I neglected my condition I'd be bedridden still(and all from coming into contact with certain plants! who'da thunk something so ridiculous could happen? And look at Panterra's gluten intolerance?! That's pretty strange when you think about it, too.) Thankfully I grew up mentally and decided that I was sick and tired of being sick and tired. I researched, learned what I had to do, and then sucked it up and did it even if I get really tired of constantly reading labels and researching new stuff when I don't have the time or feel like it.
My condition doesn't really have a name. It's not terminal. It'll never kill me. It'll just make me WANT to die because of the intense pain. So you and I have something in common there with that last bit. I'm so sorry you required surgery. That really sucks. And kidney surgery is no joke. I know that they pretty much have to cut you in half so that they can get to those organs. Not exactly a fun recovery period, I am sure.
Your dietary hardship sounds awful. I'm lucky in that I only have to read the ingredients in the most obvious places for my no-no's to be found. You and Panterra have to look EVERYwhere for where your danger may lurk.