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NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/20/10 07:49:38PM
849 posts

My Fiance Is Leaving Me...


General Talk

I can honestly tell you that in 12 years i have never had 1 single doubt that we were meant to be together for better or worse. I was 16 when we met at a show and I said to my friend the next morning "i met the man i am going to marry!!" Not that we haven't gone through our shit, we have! we've been through it ALL! But even through the worst of it we knew that we were supposed to be together. If you truly believe that this girl is your soulmate than by all means go for it, i just don't want you to misinterpret your feelings of loneliness and fear of the unknown for true love, I am NOT saying that is what you're doing at ALL! Believe me i am the last one to tell you you're not right for eachother. EVERYBODY laughed at us when we first got together and said we'd NEVER make it! We did spend some time apart from eachother in the first couple of years not by choice (i was in a group home for teen girls) and a lot of other crazy shit BUT we always found our way back to eachother and while that may not help your pain now you have to believe that it will work out if it's supposed to and you WILL get through this no matter what, I promise! GreyGargoyle said:
Thanks, Sister Rags...

Laura, didn't you ever have doubts about your husband or him about you?
I'm just curious, you seem like the right person to ask.
NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/20/10 04:25:22PM
849 posts

My Fiance Is Leaving Me...


General Talk

don't wait around for her to change her mind and come back. Seriously. If she doesn't see that you're right for her after 2 years she ain't worth your time. There could be someone out there a hundred times better for you. Live Your Life! GreyGargoyle said:
Yeah, I just hate going through senseless pain. That's why it fucking hurts so much. I devoted EVERYTHING that I had to her...and if it DOES ever come back to us getting together then this break up was just senseless pain and a waste of time. But if I look at it from another point of view, it can be a nice way to learn how we truly feel about each other. But if it doesn't work out then I'm just hurt and lonely. Because across the country she can easily just hang up on me and be done with it and never talk to me again...if I'm here I at least have a little control in the way that I might be able to show her that I am right for her, show her how much she really means to me and how I am the perfect guy for her..But on the phone and over the net she can just back out whenever. I guess that is why everyone says, "if it's just meant to be then it will be." But it fucking hurts so damn bad.

Jake Holland said:
Things have a way of working themselves out man. My fiance left me about 3 months ago, and now she realizes what she had and wants me back. I am a little confused but I think we decided to move out of state and travel the country working along the way.....weird huh.
NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/20/10 10:14:51AM
849 posts

My Fiance Is Leaving Me...


General Talk

im sorry things aren't working out sweetie, when we talked yesterday i had a feeling things were headed this way. You MUST believe that whats meant to be will be! And it really could always be worse, even though it doesn't feel like it now. I think you are doing a LOT of growing and changing as person and maybe she isn't. Maybe she never will. You need to learn about what you want and what makes you happy,really HAPPY! Not just whats comfortable. I see it all the time. I told you I've had close to 9 couples I know end their marriages in the past 3 or 4 years. Don't be afraid to be alone, cause you really never are. Go and travel, see the country or the world do what YOU want to do. You need to find the happiness within yourself that nobody else can give you first and then when you're not looking or expecting it, your soulmate will show up. Take care of yourself you're a great guy and you deserve the best. Don't settle!! Much Love
NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/23/10 11:21:21AM
849 posts

why are you against johnny cleans methods and products


Dread Products

Beautifully said Panterra! May I suggest that this be a permanent page in the forum or FAQ it should be something that everyone reads once they find this site. I also wouldn't mind seeing what JC has to say about this well thought out and scientifically backed argument against wax!! Well done PC! Panterra Caraway said:
Okay, I have stayed quiet long enough! I will probably do better to mind my own business then to jump into this mess but I can't in good conscience leave it alone. I have been a hairdresser for 30 years, and I know my job very well. I have kept quiet on this debate because I have only had dreads for one month and until I came to this site I knew nothing about dreads specifically. That said, I do know about hair...how it works, how chemicals affect it and the internal structure. I have a very good grasp on what occurs within the hair structure when it is exposed to heat, chemicals and backcombing. So, dreadlocks aside, I think I qualify on a professional level as a hair expert. First off, let me say that ANY SUBSTANCE that contains chemicals does varying degrees of damage to the hair structure. The first layer of hair (there are 3 total) is called the cuticle. In a close up this looks like scales on a fish. These little scales open and close repeatedly when subjected to chemicals or oxygen, that's right, oxygen! When you use a hair color other than henna or a vegatable dye the hydrogen (oxygen) molecules pull open those scales to let the color pass deeper into the hair to become permanent. When you use a blowdryer, these little scales open too..also, when you put water on your hair the scales open from the oxygen as well. The main purpose of these scales opening and closing is to allow a chemical to penetrate into the structure and become a part of it as in perms or color or to allow dirt to leave the hair as in shampooing. Remember, that it was people who invented these chemical processes. And any chemical that penetrates that first layer becomes more and more damaging the deeper it goes. That is why perms and relaxers are the most damaging...since to be effective they go to the inner third layer. All that said, wax does not penetrate into the hair...but the use of it even in small doses coats and impedes the cuticle layer (those scales) from opening and closing properly to let the hair be cleansed. Those scales have a limited life and when they are impeded by being opened and closed too frequently (by repeated chemical processes) or stuck shut by wax, they degrade the hair! And, in case you didn't know...damage on hair is cumulative, just like in skin! You can get a sunburn every year of your life and feel great until your 35 and have skin cancer! As for backcombing...and crocheting....these processes vigerously force those same scales open and if the manipulation is aggressive enough the scales will not function as they are supposed to. These are facts, not opinions! I liken this entire debate to the one about weight loss. You can lose weight with diet and exercise, and that is what is healthiest. You can also lose weight by gastric by pass and take the risk of dying on the table or having some other serious side effect..so, if you can change your mind set and be healthy...why wouldn't you?! In conclusion, let me reiterate...wax is bad, used sparingly...it is still like saying "I am a little bit pregnant". Alittle or alot, it is not good for anyone's hair. Backcombing and crocheting are also very damaging and degrading to hair. To be honest with you ...a blowdryer and flatiron are bad too. Everything you can do to your hair, except shampooing with herbs and natural ingredients like baking soda or vinegar/lemons will harm your hair! Over time this damage will systematically destroy your hair whether it is dreaded or not!!! Because I know all this I knew that what SE said here was not an opinion but a thoughtful set of FACTS! Anyone who wants to challenge what I just said...BRING IT OR SHUT UP ALREADY!
NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/20/10 04:22:22PM
849 posts

why are you against johnny cleans methods and products


Dread Products

I haven't seen that happen at ALL! If someone comes here unhappy with being sold useless products they are given great advice on how to remove it or replace it with something healthy! Not sure where you're coming from with that!?!?!?! Alex Ridge said:
the problem is,,

even if people come to the forums saying


new dreadhead "look guys, i need some advice.."

"a member" oh go ahead, oh wait... "YOU HAVE USED DREADHEADHQ STUFF!!! YOUR SCREWED... there is no hope!

so people dont bother in the first place, scare tactics runs deep..

its a great shame, and i dont expect it from dreadheads [only expect it for baldhead rasclats]

Peace,
Selah
NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/20/10 03:19:54PM
849 posts

why are you against johnny cleans methods and products


Dread Products

this sites MISSION!! as stated on front page~"Dreadlockssite is not profit driven, we will never give bad advice just to sell bad products. We only want to give you the chance to have dreadlocks that are healthy as can be. Other sites may promise dreads in a hurry, but we promise only dreads that will last a lifetime. There is a reason most of our members tried dreads the product way first and now are here starting over the right way. Two-thirds have lost dreads to dread products like wax. we do not discriminate against those who have used harmful products and methods, but we will reccommend you never use them again. This includes popular but harmful methods like interlocking and crochet."Read more: dreadlocks forums - dreadlock methods and maintenance forums site products free dreads http://www.dreadlockssite.com/#ixzz0uFvN9biD the best place for real dreadlocks no lies no products to buy just truth about healthy dreadsUnder Creative Commons License: Attribution
NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/19/10 05:53:18PM
849 posts

why are you against johnny cleans methods and products


Dread Products

they're probably NOT real. Considering his GF sloan's look IDENTICAL to his! ZuriYAH "Zii" said:
Dude, are his dreads even real?! I really really doubt it. With his grade of hair, I honestly doubt his "locs" are real.

GreyGargoyle said:
I don't know which video it is. I forgot, SE will provide you a link though. I think it is the "lock docta" video. I'm not hating, man. I'm stating the facts. DREADSLOCKS ARE STRONG...no matter what you do to em they will still dread. But in the end it's much better to allow them to dread naturally and that is my OPINION. And everything that I stated in my other post is absolutely TRUE. If Jonny Clean didn't HATE on NATURAL dreads and then tell everyone that we need to buy his shit to be presentable or have REAL dreads then do you think we'd HATE on his fake ass crap locks?

lol, sorry about that I got into it. Take care, man. HAHA, I'm weird.
Alex Ridge said:
show me the video..

no i just hate haters
NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/19/10 05:45:18PM
849 posts

why are you against johnny cleans methods and products


Dread Products

I'll never understand this concept of "perfect" dreads. If you're so worried about your hair being messy, Don't dread. Wax and other unnecessary products may not make every set of dreads fall out BUT as we see here it does cause a LOT of harm. Going natural has no chance of that. If you want to wax go ahead it's your hair, as whole we think it's gross and harmful, but were not forcing you not to use it. Maybe you'll be one of the few that just walk around with stiff candles. By the way 4 years is not that long to have locks when you've been selling dread products for close to 10. Why does he always have to cut? Best of luck to you.
NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/20/10 02:32:22PM
849 posts

Dreadlock Extensions


Dreading Methods

they look totally fake and even the real part looks overly messed with. She's a pretty girl, shoulda left em alone! Paula said:
Yeah I've seen her videos. She says she tries to maintain them but keep the messy look. Though that doesn't mean that there isn't damage in there

cassie gabriel said:
cause sometimes when people do maitenence they dont look good
NaturalWomyn
@naturalwomyn
07/20/10 02:13:52PM
849 posts

Dreadlock Extensions


Dreading Methods

~~CREEPY!!!~~ cassie gabriel said:

^ for making the dredlock extentions



^ adding them in
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