embarrassed to be seen in public
Life Issues Facing Dreads
My dad doesnt say much about them. My mom has a couple questions but has always been supportive of my crazy hair decisions. She tends to however be more judgemental of the guys that I date. (Only been 2!) The last guy was a disaster so I don't blame her for that but when I talk to her about my new boyfriend she has a judgemental tone to her voice about some things. He is bipolar and she made a comment about if we get married and want a family not to have kids because he could pass it on. It hurt that she would judge that so quickly especially since she knows I do want kids one day.In regards to how you dress, wear your hair, kind of tattoos you have, piercings etc. It's your body not theirs. They try and make the rule of if you are under my roof it's my rules. Try asking them why they are so against it. They most likely won't be able to come up with a good answer. Jobs as well with silly rules on dress code. I can understand with a safety concern or a health code issue with length but they wouldn't have the same issues with a girl who has super frizzy hair naturally that just isn't in dreads... It sadly is an ignorance thing.