Here is me before dreading:
F irst day after back-combing about 6 hours:
Week one:
One month: 
2 months: (today)
my hair is a lot shorter!
I would like to know more about this 'law'. Im almost sure there is more to it, or maybe its a rumor. Do you have a link to it Melissa?
yeah, someone will take it to supreme court as soon as they get evicted/fired I'm sure and it'll be repealed. It's just silly that they'd even do that in the first place
soaring eagle said:
hows that constitutional?
but bet u cant be fired or evicted for being cristian huh
Melissa Kamerad said:yeah I agree. Everyone is super conservative compared to where I moved from in SoCal. No alcohol on Sundays and other ridiculous ass laws. I don't get it, they just recently got rid of domestic violence laws in Topeka,KS because they don't have money to enforce it.. so you can beat your wife, but can't smoke a joint in your own house because they'd rather spend the money busting people for weed. They also passed a law saying that you can be fired or evicted for being gay.. I don't get it, these people don't make any sense.
lol I could never live somewhere like Oklahoma or Kansas my whole life. I'd go crazy like the rest of the people here
yeah I agree. Everyone is super conservative compared to where I moved from in SoCal. No alcohol on Sundays and other ridiculous ass laws. I don't get it, they just recently got rid of domestic violence laws in Topeka,KS because they don't have money to enforce it.. so you can beat your wife, but can't smoke a joint in your own house because they'd rather spend the money busting people for weed. They also passed a law saying that you can be fired or evicted for being gay.. I don't get it, these people don't make any sense.
yeah that's exactly how it is. it was a total culture shock for me, I always lived in bigger cities. I don't have friends here because everyone is well.. rednecks 
my boyfriend is normal though thank goodness
I had a baby June 2010 a day before my HS graduation and my parents got orders to Honolulu, I chose not to go because my mom has a prescription pill problem and I couldn't handle being around her and I couldn't stay in California, there was no jobs and for a studio apartment I'd be lucky to find one for $800 bucks, so I would have been homeless if I stayed. So I decided to start a new life somewhere I've never been before in Kansas because my oldest daughter's dad had family out there.. long story short we broke up.. I have no friends or family here except my boyfriend, but I couldn't be happier. Being on my own is the best.
Hello everyone. My name is Melissa. I'm 20, I live in Kansas currently. I've lived a lot of places though (I'm a navy brat, and my parents live in Hawaii now, but I chose not to go) California was my most recent in Ventura County before I moved here. I have two daughters Isabelle (22 months) and Lilian (5 months) and an amazing fiance. I'm a CNA at a nursing home and a full-time student trying to get my RN. I get my Associates next spring then off to nursing school for 2 years I go. My dreads are very new, I started them on February 14, 2012.
