I have the extreme urge to just rub the sides of my hair in circles under the idea that this will help form knots. Is that a mistake? Is it bad for locking or just ineffective and useless, or will it help my hair lock a bit better?
it can create a general knotty mess that then needs ripping apart into dreads it also can cause damage crinkle points and friction damage its unesacary
Thank you kindly, hair guru! I am gonna resist the urge to touch it! I'm sure the oils on my hands aren't doing much good either. I have jets in my bathtub and when I bathe I let the two jets on either side of my head flow through my hair, it seems to encourage some tangling rather than the water pressure "brushing" out my hair. Do you think I'm overkilling it? I'm certainly trying to mentally cope with letting it just be... my obsessive little monkey fuck brain over excites and wants to help, but mostly it just gets in the way of nature lol.
