dear huby and mom in law
i want you to understand my decision to dread and what it means to me
in todays society so much emphasis is put on unatural beauty, women are told to shave every hair from their bodies cover their faces in a mask like coating of makeup to starve themselves into an unatural thinness
spend hours a day in a gym to get abs and buns of steel all in an attempt to be more aceptable and at the same time they feel less and les in touch with the real self
dreading is a way of feeling truly myself for the 1st time in my life, as well as becoming the real natural me without artificial masks
to feel like myself is the most important thing in the world to me and to be put down for it ..is abusive
i understand yoir concerns but they are based on myths theres hardly any jobs that are affected by dreads these few are ..austraunaut, firefighter fighter jet pilot
in short any job requiring an airtight mask that might not fit right due to dreads
however those austraunauts never would have set foot on the moon withoit a man with dreads biuilding and designing the rocket that got them there (the same mans now a ceo of a largest refinery o biodeisel in the country and still has his dreads)
dreads are illegal to descriminate against since they are a religios expression ..of virtualy every religion..yours included if youd only do yoir research instead of just judging..in fact the dreads are considered the holiest of holy
this is another thing that makes dreads so important i learn things evey day through dreading it s a spiritual awakening for me thats making me stronger more confident in myself and wiser every day
closed minds cant understand what opened eyes may see
but opened eyes may see just how lil a closed mind may accet
i hope you open yoir mind..or yoir eyes..and see whats really important...i am happy being me
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My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1