its that 1 in 10,000 thing I've noticed.
9,999 say wow thank you for helping me when you pull them out of a burning building, r help them out in other ways.
then theres that 1 in 10,000 who acts like its an attack if you dare try helping them in any way
i'll always try to help, even after they start fighting
but..if it turned into a 3 day fight that prevented the helping of others or distracted from it then i put an abrupt end to it
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My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1