He will come around-- glad he is starting too I hate tattoos and once had a longterm boyfriend who got this HUGE stupid tribal design thing on his entire upper left shoulder. I used to want to puke when I saw it.... it's funny, about 2 years after he got it, I would find myself totally entranced and tracing the lines with my fingers.
It took me literally years to come around-- it's really hard to accept big changes sometimes when you're so intimate with someone. Part of you kinda feels like you should have some say in this person's outward appearance (which is nuts) and it's just because you love someone so much that your projection of them may be different than how they actually view themselves....believe me, dude's gonna be pulling on those dreads and helping you make beads for them with tools outta the garage before you know it mama
updated by @jackie: 07/23/15 05:24:15AM