updated by @midread: 07/22/15 04:53:25PM
I am 48 and have had my dreads for one year. I did talk to my hubby who was 53 before I did it. I had a kind of spiritual reason for doing it so he was pretty accepting. But hey four years before this I just had to have another baby and off to China he went with me, so I think he was relieved it was just dreads LOL. Maybe you should like shoot for something really crazy and when he says no just say, "so about those dreads?"
As a side note he would be really bummed if I threatened to cut them now, he loves them!
Aw, I dunno....I got my nose pierced for my 38th b-day and got my first tats at age 42. Do you know, Rae, that in ancient times NO ONE was permitted to begin studying the Kabbalah before age 40?