could you please edit your post? black crack neighborhood is very offensive. I won't take any offence in it if you were to edit it. I think you can understand why blessings.
updated by @shaun-saunders: 07/02/15 09:08:17AM
could you please edit your post? black crack neighborhood is very offensive. I won't take any offence in it if you were to edit it. I think you can understand why blessings.
for me i always get the "its really cute but ..... how do you do it? do you wash it ever? i thought only african americans did that" & then since i wear tie dyes & have tattoos & dreads people are always eyeballing me like.
one time i was going on a hike with my friend, we walked past two people & i heard them say under their breath "their hiiiiiiigh" when i clearly was not!
i turned around & said, nah, but i really wish i was :P
i hate it >.<</body>
I dunno if this is just an aussie thing or what, but there's this urban myth that everyone seems to know and question dreadheads about over here....that if you get dreads, you'll get spiders, more specifically, Redbacks (US equiv. black widows) going in there and laying eggs and pretty soon you'll have a swarm of poisonous spiders in your locks. People are idiots.
The only disdainful looks/comments I have received so far (only dreading 2 mo) have been from family or close friends who simply do not like the look and don't mind telling me so. I just laugh when they say it, because I would NEVER say anything like that to anyone, regardless! I just consider the source of the comment and don't give it any credence. I usually reply, "Awww so-and-so, I know you're just jealous!" hee hee
I love the "you used to be so pretty" or "your hair was always so beautiful" OH and the "you're just too lazy to brush your hair"....yes that's it...I take better care of myself and my hair now than I ever did when I was constantly brushing and breaking and tearing it out, and using so much product on it to "tame" what it really wanted to do, only to shove it up in a bun on the back of my head to forget about it lol
I love the "you used to be so pretty" or "your hair was always so beautiful" OH and the "you're just too lazy to brush your hair"....yes that's it...I take better care of myself and my hair now than I ever did when I was constantly brushing and breaking and tearing it out, and using so much product on it to "tame" what it really wanted to do, only to shove it up in a bun on the back of my head to forget about it lol
my x gf had dreads for 14 years, i've had dreads 3 times...this is my final time and im not cutting them.
i've heard alot of stuff...
one of my favorites was at a concert and some douche bag w/ a gallon of gel in his spiked hair points and says "that's not a hair-do...that a hair-dont" he was the only one out of all his douch-bag friends that thought it was funny...they just looked at him like he was a retard...like i did.
"how do you wash it"?...that's always a good one
"do you have to braid your hair every day"?
"how many hours does it take to do your hair"?
Ha, I don't get many bad questions about them. I live in the city, so it's not an uncommon style around here. The other day at WAWA, I had a black lady come up to me and ask "I don't want to offend you or anything, but Why do white people locks their hair? I know why 'we' do (yes, she actually said we"), but why di white people? I just told her that everyone does it for their own reason. Even black people have them for different reasons. Then I told her mine, and she seemed satisfied