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Lonnie Berg
@lonnie-berg
7 years ago
219 posts
What spiderfeet said! Go for it girl, You'll Rock!!!!
updated by @lonnie-berg: 07/23/15 08:16:04AM
Faelwynn
@faelwynn
7 years ago
362 posts
I took a lot of crap from my family and friends over my decision to dread... my mother posted tactless comments on my dready timeline on facebook, my sister refuses to acknowledge that she has a sister (mostly due to the dreads) and while my father is trying to be accepting, even he is a bit wary of them.I was in the same boat.. in high school, my only attractive quality was my long and perfectly healthy red hair. But here's the thing. The dreads are going to do something magical for you: dreads weed out the people that are really there for you, vs. just there for your looks. In the long run, as gratifying as it is to hear people call you pretty/gorgeous/ect. what you need is people that love you for you. If this guy can't accept you as you are (dreads or no) and see the beauty beyond the dreads, then he's really not worth your time.I was worried when I started dreading that my fianc was going to find me less attractive because of them...something beautiful happened though. As my dreads matured, he watched my confidence grow. Suddenly, I was my own person, and not worrying so much about what other people thought. I became more attractive to him just because of that boost in confidence.Moral of the story: Buck up sweetheart. You're gorgeous and this is your decision. Figure out why you really want dreads and hold onto that like glue. Never let anyone's opinion sway your mind.
☮ soaring eagle ॐ
@soaring-eagle
7 years ago
28,054 posts
see thats what dreads will give you that strength thasts so sexy confidence power you will be truly you and noone can harm you when you know who you are\love u emEmily said:
theyll suit you for sure. youre a beautiful girl and youll have beautiful dreadies :) i was worried of what people thought about me wayyy too much before, but dreads cured me of that completely. i am who i am and nobody is gonna make me change that.



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☮ soaring eagle ॐ
@soaring-eagle
7 years ago
28,054 posts
i ciouldnt have said it betterFaelwynn said:
I took a lot of crap from my family and friends over my decision to dread... my mother posted tactless comments on my dready timeline on facebook, my sister refuses to acknowledge that she has a sister (mostly due to the dreads) and while my father is trying to be accepting, even he is a bit wary of them.

I was in the same boat.. in high school, my only attractive quality was my long and perfectly healthy red hair. But here's the thing. The dreads are going to do something magical for you: dreads weed out the people that are really there for you, vs. just there for your looks. In the long run, as gratifying as it is to hear people call you pretty/gorgeous/ect. what you need is people that love you for you. If this guy can't accept you as you are (dreads or no) and see the beauty beyond the dreads, then he's really not worth your time.

I was worried when I started dreading that my fianc was going to find me less attractive because of them...something beautiful happened though. As my dreads matured, he watched my confidence grow. Suddenly, I was my own person, and not worrying so much about what other people thought. I became more attractive to him just because of that boost in confidence.

Moral of the story: Buck up sweetheart. You're gorgeous and this is your decision. Figure out why you really want dreads and hold onto that like glue. Never let anyone's opinion sway your mind.



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Creator and head dreadhead at:
Dreadlocks Site
Glider pilot student at:
Freedoms wings international
Alicia
@alicia
7 years ago
68 posts
Your hair doesn't make you beautiful. Listen to I am not my hair by India Arie..such an amazing song. Anyways..You will look great with dreads. I have never felt sexier. :)
Zen
@zen
7 years ago
10 posts
AVOIDING YOU???? ARE THEY BLIND????but seriously...bottom line it's your choice sister. take the advice of all the people that posted here...you'll be happier.peace&love_zen
IllumiKnotty
@illumiknotty
7 years ago
212 posts
not everyone is going to love your dreads.
Bobbi
@bobbi
7 years ago
27 posts
You are beautiful and I don't think you should let one person's comment change your mind. Number one most important thing in life is making sure you are happy and meeting your own needs. One thing that is happening with me while on this dreading journey is that I am growing so much more confidence and can look in the mirror and be happy with myself. I finally am starting to feel like my outside appearance is refecting my inner self. Sure some people may be less receptive to people with dreads but honestly why would you want to be around someone that judges based on appearance? I also went through a period of discouragement in the beginning of my dreads but it's all part of the process. Just stay true to yourself and you can never be wrong. Good luck!
celestine✿۞
@celestine
7 years ago
80 posts
i cant believe my eyes actually, i know for some time now you started the dreading process(and i m more than happy for that;) ) but i just wanted to say that guys nowadays dont now how to appreciate beauty, and for beauty i mean , true , unique , natural beauty that comes from the inside and shows on the outside..from what i can tell you are a very beautiful person, not a pretty one, a beautiful one..there's a big difference in those two words you know..and you definately fit tha first one..take care and enjoy your dreading trip..cant wait to see pics:)
☮ soaring eagle ॐ
@soaring-eagle
7 years ago
28,054 posts
drop dead gorgouse you mean...for every 1 guy who wont apreciate u 1000, will be standing in line just hoping for a chance to tell you your beautifulcelestine said:
i cant believe my eyes actually, i know for some time now you started the dreading process(and i m more than happy for that;) ) but i just wanted to say that guys nowadays dont now how to appreciate beauty, and for beauty i mean , true , unique , natural beauty that comes from the inside and shows on the outside..
from what i can tell you are a very beautiful person, not a pretty one, a beautiful one..there's a big difference in those two words you know..
and you definately fit tha first one..
take care and enjoy your dreading trip..
cant wait to see pics:)



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Glider pilot student at:
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