Why is it so difficult?

im still waiting for "that" girl to pop up :p
updated by @pelun: 07/23/15 03:28:38PM

i dont really think you should look for a chick with locks but look for a chick you would love to be around no matter what. if you find a chick that loves you and you love her, you never know but she might have wanted to get dreads but didnt want to be judged or something and feels comfortable so the do it with you.

Good idea!

Valentin said:

i dont really think you should look for a chick with locks but look for a chick you would love to be around no matter what. if you find a chick that loves you and you love her, you never know but she might have wanted to get dreads but didnt want to be judged or something and feels comfortable so the do it with you.

You could say that he evolved into one...

pelun said:

like a nazi skinhead?

Mary White said:

Yeah, well I'm married to a skinhead and anything that is "different" is wrong..

pelun said:

i have the sameexperience cant find a girl who will accept my locs.

sorry to hear that

Mary White said:

You could say that he evolved into one...

pelun said:

like a nazi skinhead?

Mary White said:

Yeah, well I'm married to a skinhead and anything that is "different" is wrong..

pelun said:

i have the sameexperience cant find a girl who will accept my locs.

you gotta stop looking and just let it come to you. you'll realize when you're older and you've been through a crazy relationship or two that this time you have to yourself right now is UNBELIEVABLY valuable. you really need to find out who you are to find someone who can connect with your puzzle piece. trust me, the wait is not a bad thing at all. it's wonderful. get to know yourself. love yourself. find your passions. find out what you can't possibly give up. just get to know people in general, learn how to read people, learn what kind of people you get along with. you'll get there, brother, i promise!!!! just let it fall into your lap. it will come. just be open, honest, and patient. love and blessings to you!

Baby Britt; you give some pretty solid advice =] I really appreciate it.

it seems that most everyone, secretly or openly, is waiting for that someone...patiently, or non patiently. But, over this past couple days, I've come to find something... Everyone is waiting.. right? well, if we all wait...who's left to do the chasing? If everyone wants to be found, who's left to look?

the universe works in wonderfully unexpected ways, my friend.

and here im thinking why cant i find any nice guy with dreadlocks? :P dont worry. lifes an adventure and youll find someone (:

couldn't have said it better myself. including your previous comment too

baby britt said:

the universe works in wonderfully unexpected ways, my friend.