Hi Everyone,
So glad I found you. I apologize in advance if this gets long and winding. A little about myself. I'm a mom, wife, daughter, niece, friend, co worker. I have wanted dreadlocks since the mid 90's. I guess that was the first time I was around people who had them.. i thought they were beautiful. I guess life took over after that. Through the years the thought would come and go. Whenever I would bring up the subject with my love ones there was always a negative reaction on their part. A few years back I mentioned dreads to my kids and they actually started crying! At one point I researched dreads and thought I couldn't afford them!
Life has taken many twists and turns, as life tends to do. At the start of this year I decided to stop blaming others for MY unhappiness and really take a look at myself. I can tell you that I am a much happier person than i was a mere 3 months ago. Once again the thought of Dreadlocks creeped back into my head. In the past I was always so worried about what other people would think. Not anymore.. Not sure where that worry went.. but glad its gone. Found this web site.. I made the decision yesterday. Today is day 1. Did I mention how impatient I am? I'm hoping through this process to maybe gain some patience.. and to also find out who i am and better understand myself.
Today I am feeling emotional. I really cant say why.. I mean I cant pin point it to my hair. I woke up with some worries.. hopped on here, read a bit and felt better... but emotional.. which isnt necessarily a bad thing.
I picked my teen daughter up this evening and she asked me what was "Up" with my hair. It already looks different. I told her I decided to stop brushing it. After a few more questions I told her I have started the dreadlock process. She made the announcement tonight at dinner. There was some talk about dreads being dirty, questions about how long it would take. Hubby seems to think that we wont be able to go anywhere "nice". so all in all a good day. excited to start this journey.. i know it won't be easy.. but will be worth it!
Love to all,
April
updated by @april-n: 01/13/15 09:51:18PM