oh boy is this discussion going to get alot of replies hahas ok well let me 1st say..bad mom! spanks! not o you..to your mom
you have tio face her remarks ..a hippie that eats grass? wtf
id tell her mom your the only 1 with the negativity and if i didnt think my child could handle a negative remark then well yoir the only 1 if have to keep her/him from
ok ill tell u a story..its a heartbreaker but my best freind (shes on here chevelle trant) her evil ex and his evil family took her kitds kidnapped them.. and shes been fighting for 4 long years maybe 6 to get them back
all they had against her was
shes not cristu=ian
she has dreads
knows black people and calls then freinds
and has a schoolbus (technicaly mine i paid for it its in her name at her house though)
the lawyers tried geting her to cut her dresads saying it woiuld help j=her case (it wouldnt and they lied it wsas the evil asshole who was still trying tio control her) she refused saying what kind of example to her kids would she be (they constantly shave thgese beautiful girls bald to humiliate them) (the 1 had grown her hair from birth)
because moms strong and si=uch a beautiful person the kids have sterayed strong through pure hell..having their pets shot in front of them (because mom will not hurt a bug..literaly) the kids were forced tio sleep in a bed with a loaded rifle dorced to go door to door handing out relifgios pamphlets etc they been really tortured all just to hget back at mom..for having dreads and esxaping slaverty (she was not alowed to leave the house and they burned everrything she owned)
anyways these kids stayed strong through it all they want to dread so badly the older 1 is back with mom finaly the younger ..might be by now i hiope (havent been able to reach them in months)
but these kids will need therapy for life after that but the piint im getting at is they admire and respect mom for not giving in not cuttomg her hair even under the worse pressure u can imagine.
shes been on the virge of breakdown for years over this crap
other stories
several members here and others i knew started dreads to comemerate the childs birth
1 woman i knew her dad had 46 year old dresds..probly 15-20 feet by now started when she was born
we have several families with parents with dreds kids with dreads even grandparents with dreasds
your moms the most toxic person youir kifs will be exposed to if you can raise them withoit her screwing them up but still being around then thats all the proof u need that yiur a great mom
so dread on and when yoir kuds want to dread explain to them that some ppl may act like grandmom and when ythey accept that let them dread too
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