My husband said that I shouldn't get my new tnr'd dreadlocks wet for 1-3 months or they won't lock at all and they will all come undone.
Is that true?
I haven't washed my hair in like 4 days now because we have slowly been doing my whole head in tnr dreads and I would really like to get them wet when they're done.
That and I really want them to smell like dragons blood 
Help?
geez yoir husbands umm no offence om i wont say it
wash your dreads 1-3 times a weejk starting today he reaklly didnt get them wet for 3 months?
ewww
washing will make them dred he will never have dreads the way hes doing things just sticky gross hair stuck togerther
when u wash it tangles
it will loosen at 1st but thbats ok it will then tighten back up
look at all the natural dreadshere they never even tnred all they did was wash and it dreaded more and more after every wash
the only thing u want to di lil diferent is be gentle at q1st and scrub only the scalp not the hair
I'm sad you lost patience 
, the natural way is such a beautiful thing to experience if you can just convince yourself to let go and stop combing( which is way easier said than done). But yea I knew SE would be all over this 
and he's already said it you have to keep your hair clean! not only will you stink but it will be very oily which doesnt help the dreading process at all. You want clean dry hair. I've heard alot of peoples tnr's end up falling out then dreading, then they wished they just leftem natural. I'd recommend the baking soda and vinegar rinse, you don't scrub you just pour it over your hair so your not touchin it to much. I love it
He is probably aware that when you use a starter method, and wash them, they loosen up, and sometimes come completely out before they start to retangle. But he's not aware that unwashed hair doesn't really lock up. When you don't wash your hair, it gets oily and slick. Oily dirty hair resists locking. The more often you wash it, the better for new locks. So wash your hair 2-3 times a week for new locks. As they mature, you can wash then once or twice a week.
But don't wait any longer
After I washed my hair the ends of some of my dread babies have come undone. Do I just leave it alone or do I re-twist them up? I think I remember being told to leave them alone....but again, my husband says different lol.
Just leave them be. When you re do them, you are setting the progress back to day one. It'll just take that much longer to mature. If you leave them, they will retangle on their own.
Ok cool (: I just hope they don't unravel completely and pretty much be back to day 1 again. If so though I will still continue to leave them be. Patience is something that I don't have much of so this will be a great journey for me to learn some <3
Baba Fats said:
Just leave them be. When you re do them, you are setting the progress back to day one. It'll just take that much longer to mature. If you leave them, they will retangle on their own.
Them comingunraveledmay seem like they are moving backwards, and in a way it is. But in reality that is a step forwards. The journey of growing locks is a one step forward 2 steps back process.
But think about it objectively. If you were to redo them every time they came undone, you'd get frustrated thinking that they were never progressing past that point. Every time you washe dyour hair, it would seem like you had to start all over again. But if you just let them be and allow them to come untangled and then reknot themselves, you will always be moving forwards. And you will always be waiting for the next step. Instead of reliving the same step over and over
