what's wrong with people
@oostan-heimach
12 years ago
38 posts
@soaring-eagle
12 years ago
29,637 posts
threy usualy ask i think some think they can cop a feel without u noticing haga
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@soaring-eagle
12 years ago
29,637 posts
haha sure but to avoid getting arrested tell them so tyou think its ok to jusrt grab my hair? well then in that case its ok for me to grab your ass..lol
but i think if u just do it without saying anything u might gert into trouble
nappyL. said:
think I should cop a feel right back ?
soaring eagle said:threy usualy ask i think some think they can cop a feel without u noticing haga
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@angel-frye
12 years ago
409 posts
ROFL. Yeah. there are shades of gray with that. "They grabbed my HAIR so I grabbed their ASS."
Some people have varying measurements of their 'comfort zone' and what they interpret other's to be. Like here in the US we don't kiss cheeks when greeting. It's a cultural thing but also a personal choice with how 'personal' we like to get with people or not. Some people detest shaking hands. *shrug* And others like to grab other people's hair because they think it's ok.
"So you're a hair puller, huh?" waggle your eyebrows at them. Watch their reaction. You'll either get a chuckle and a slight blush from them or a mortified huff and they walk away. Either way, entertaining!!!
My family members have started grabbing my hair now, too. Sister, aunts, uncles, etc. Just curious about the changing texture. I don't have a problem with it as long as I see their hand coming at me. Coming up behind me is a different story, though. Reflexes, man. They get people hurt. Maybe the offending person needs to be reminded that we all have ingrained security reflexes that when we don't like something we will lash out.
Angel Frye said:
ROFL. Yeah. there are shades of gray with that. "They grabbed my HAIR so I grabbed their ASS."
Some people have varying measurements of their 'comfort zone' and what they interpret other's to be. Like here in the US we don't kiss cheeks when greeting. It's a cultural thing but also a personal choice with how 'personal' we like to get with people or not. Some people detest shaking hands. *shrug* And others like to grab other people's hair because they think it's ok.
"So you're a hair puller, huh?" waggle your eyebrows at them. Watch their reaction. You'll either get a chuckle and a slight blush from them or a mortified huff and they walk away. Either way, entertaining!!!
My family members have started grabbing my hair now, too. Sister, aunts, uncles, etc. Just curious about the changing texture. I don't have a problem with it as long as I see their hand coming at me. Coming up behind me is a different story, though. Reflexes, man. They get people hurt. Maybe the offending person needs to be reminded that we all have ingrained security reflexes that when we don't like something we will lash out.